Most children take playing and having friends as a normal part of their growth and development. It’s so natural to watch youngsters trying to connect with others and see their joy when they have “a friend.” Someone to connect with outside the family. Friendships, time spent together, making memories through good times and bad, through special milestones, or just through quiet communication, being with someone who is on the same wavelength as you. These are perhaps some of the strongest memories that we carry with us through our lives.
So, what happens when this most basic of human needs is interrupted? When children with severe communication gaps cannot form friendships in the typical or expected manner? Who do they turn to for companionship? Who do they laugh and cry with?
Unfortunately, for many children with special needs, loneliness is a significant part of their life. The opportunity to form friendships is minimal at best, and even more remote is the possibility of maintaining a connection that they have made. For in all likelihood, logic and necessity would require that the caregivers of children with special needs, would choose their children’s connections, have a say in the frequency that their special needs children interacted with other children, as well as choose the location and activities that they be involved in.
For the parents the constant balancing act of time, energy, safety, location and the sheer grit required, to maintain recreational time for their loved ones is daunting.
Our recipient charity for 2018, VHA Playdate, is trying to fill this gap for families. Their mandate is to provide recreational programs for children with very high needs, all of whom have difficulties with communication, mobility, social skills, self-help skills and all of whom require ongoing support and supervision from others.
Emajjin Children’s Foundation is proud to support the endeavours of VHA Playdate and wish them many successes in the years to come.
Visit VHA Playdate’s website for more information.